"I understand where you're coming from — but I don't agree."
It's a simple sentence, yet one of the most powerful tools in any healthy romantic relationship.
I Understand You, But I Don’t Agree: A Guide to Healthy Boundaries in Love
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"I understand where you're coming from — but I don't agree."
It's a simple sentence, yet one of the most powerful tools in any healthy romantic relationship.
If you spend even five minutes scrolling through TikTok or YouTube Shorts, you’ve probably heard the claim that “80% of women are only attracted to the top 20% of men.”
Sounds brutal, right?
This idea has become super popular in online spaces — especially where guys talk about dating, confidence, and masculinity. But here’s the truth: while there’s a grain of reality in it, the full picture is way more complex — and way more hopeful.
Let’s break it down.