Air and sunlight are reliable, they are always there That is why you don't often hear people thanking them.
Top 10 things your partner cannot say to you ( but wished they could )
Husbands
- "There are times when I wish we were more intimate, and I miss the passion we used to have."
- "I get irritated when you criticize the way I do certain chores around the house."
- "Don't boss me around. Gender equality is about equal rights, it is not about women's domination"
- "When my mother-in-law tries to correct you, you feel uncomfortable and irritated. But if you are doing the same thing to me, why I'm not supposed to be irritated?"
Wives
- "I sometimes resent how much time you spend at work and wish you were home more."
- "There are times when I feel unappreciated for all the work I do to keep our household running."
- "I wish you were more emotionally expressive and shared your feelings with me more openly."
Both
- "Please put down your phone when we are talking, that is disrespectful."
- "Just because my opinion is not the same as yours, means I am wrong. People can have different opinions on certain matters and that should be okay."
- "Before you make accusations that I'm being sexist, make sure you are not acting up an like an asshole to me. People will react negatively to you if you are an asshole regardless of gender"
The Third Space
Your first place is your home. The second one is your workplace. What is the third?
Growth through Mistakes
Mistakes are often frowned upon in modern society. However, mistakes are an integral part of the human learning process.
The Self-Perpetuating Hatred
Why Misogyny and Misandry could equally cause harm to both men and women.
Welcome
Men always struggle to understand women. Let's try to solve it...
This blog is NOT meant to spread hatred towards any gender. But serves as a guide so you don't fall into common mistakes that men make at an early age. Imagine a bench, where your Grandfather is talking to you, there are birds and lake in sight where you both are silently watching. He suddenly taps your shoulder and says "You know, there are a lot of things I wish I knew when I was in my 20s, you want to hear it?" You slightly smiled and stared at his eyes with curiosity. This is the entire blog is about - a man full of wisdom, sharing insights based on his past mistakes. So you can traverse this complicated trail we call Married life.