The Game
Game, In dating terms, means to turn the attraction of another person of the opposite gender towards you into passionate desire & to fulfill those desires by doing favors for one another. The ultimate goal is sexual release if you are talking about dating as a man. For women, the ultimate goal varies from sex to gaining a relationship, marriage, money, status, or security from men’s desire.
Players
These are the people, both men, and women, who were emotionally detached and simply dated to get the benefits they were looking for but aren't interested in the emotional risks that come with truly trying to be with anybody.
Kinds of Female Players
- Gold Digger
- Dual-Mating Strategy
Definition of Winner
In the modern dating game, the one who cares least in the relationship has the most power. That is why many say dating is toxic as everybody is slowly turning into narcissists where nobody desires anybody anymore.
Patterns Some Individuals May Exhibit
It’s important to recognize that not everyone follows the same dating patterns. However, some unhealthy behaviors have been observed in certain contexts:
- Some individuals may prioritize short‑term relationships during young adulthood and later seek long‑term commitment as their priorities change.
- Others may avoid commitment early in life and later pursue a family with a partner who shares their values.
These patterns are not inherent to any gender, and they do not represent the majority of people. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, honesty, and clear communication—not on “gaming” the other person.
How to prevent being played?
- Control your lust
- Invest time in improving your emotional well-being