What is a High-Value man
Self-Control
You need to have control of your mind, body, and soul in a way that will lead to long-term positive outcomes for you as a man.
examples:
- Go to the gym and eat right.
- Save money; don't waste it on alcohol and clubs.
- Dedicate some time to spiritual well-being.
You need to be able to resist short-term desires and temptations for long-term goals. Like, for example, resisting having sex with any woman that becomes available.
A man with no self-control can be easily distracted by a woman, money, and opportunity.
A man who can be easily distracted is malleable, and you can't be a high-value man and malleable at the same time.
High Self-esteem
Self-esteem is confidence in one's worth, abilities, or morals. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs about oneself as well as emotional states, such as triumph, despair, pride, and shame. Women, like men, have high self-esteem. Instead of chasing women, you can attract them by building up your own self-esteem.
Don't chase fame
Most people strive to be famous, and that is how they usually measure success. People who crave fame will always need validation. But people who strive to be useful will always be found.